Men too. We men are also groomed to anticipate a future that involves managing stuff, rather than actually doing anything. My mother constantly reminds me how she'd train my wife-to-be to leave her job and cook for me and do all the household chores.

I told her, no thanks. I'm good in those areas too. Not because my parents groomed me in them. but because I taught myself those things.

I'm not denying that women are being groomed for those things. I'm also saying that not grooming men for these things is also a kind of grooming, don't ya think?